September 23--The Effort It Takes

Love isn't something natural. Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. It isn't a feeling, it is a practice. 
--Erich Fromm

    Is it possible to overcome narcissism?!?! I don't see #45 making any effort at that! I do, however, give him credit for bringing that personality disorder to the forefront.

    Enough of that. Day-to-day love is definitely a practice. Each day brings new delights and annoyances--ask anyone who has parented, for instance. Or been in a long-term relationship. Or adopted a puppy. Or started a business. Or pursued a dream. Love truly is our nature, and everything we do is ultimately out of love. Translating that love into real-world action often does require all those things Fromm listed. 

    Each day brings a new opportunity to love. 

        Leta

Photo by Jacob Bentzinger