Sunday, January 7, 2024

January 7--"Four Deep Problems"

What's terrible is to pretend that second-rate is first-rate. To pretend that you don't need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.  --Doris Lessing

    I was gifted this morning with the "Richard Rohr's Daily Meditation" written by Brian McLaren. I have been looking for a succinct description of the problems we face on this planet, and Mr. McLaren writes this:

Way back in 2007, I wrote a book called Everything Must Change. I wanted to understand what our greatest challenges and threats and problems were here on Earth as a global civilization. I spent a year researching the literature of global crises, and I came away with an understanding of four deep problems that we face.

First, we face a crisis with our planet. We are literally destroying our life support system, disrupting our climate, destroying our oceans, depleting our soil, polluting everything, committing ecocide against the whole web of life.

Second, we have a crisis of poverty and unequal distribution of wealth and power, concentrating more and more wealth and power among a tiny minority of people.

That leads to a third problem: the crisis of peace. We know we’re in trouble, so what do we do? We disseminate more and more weapons of increasing kill power. We set on fire all of our divisions: racial, economic, religious, social, gender related, and more.

We have the crises of the planet, poverty, peace; the fourth crisis is religion because all too often our religious communities are remaining on the sidelines. As Thomas Merton said, they’re “guilty bystanders.” I think much religion has been selling people an evacuation plan rather than helping them participate in a transformation plan.

Every day Jesus would follow that same rhythm: withdraw for solitude, but then come back to engage by healing, feeding, caring, welcoming, binding up the wounds of this world, and implanting in people a vision of resilience, engaging with a world on fire.

    We can go all "doomsday" on this, but I myself am encouraged. I believe we are blessed with more folks who want to solve the problems rather than those creating the problems. We humans are resilient.
        Leta 
 
Friday's backyard winter wonderland,
all gone now.

Saturday, January 6, 2024

January 6--Endless Learning

Watching great people do what you love is a good way to start learning how to do it yourself.  --Amy Poehler

    I started making a list of the things I've learned to do by watching great people:
  • yoga teacher training
  • MELT training
  • 12-Step recovery
  • pickleball
  • painting 
  • crocheting
  • tax work
  • gardening
  • cooking
As I thought about it, don't we learn most everything in life by watching great people--those being parents, mentors, teachers, friends--the "regular" folks of life? This list could become quite long. 
    My younger son left college many years ago saying, "I can learn anything I need to know on the internet." He lives this. My husband has saved us thousands of dollars learning to do stuff himself via web videos and discussion sites. 
    Folks want to be helpful!
        Leta

A great person posted how to do 
this pattern on the internet,
and I learned it.

Friday, January 5, 2024

January 5--Not a Good Practice

When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everyone will respect you.  --Lao-Tzu

    Comparison and competition (C&C) are some of the horrors of our current civilization. They are everywhere. They make news. Our entire sports industry is about competition and we love it. C&C are the whole life of our politicians. There is even a rating system for different levels of pickleball skills. 
    C&C are hallmarks of perfectionism. If one's mission is to be perfect, there is a constant need for C&C to determine if one is "measuring up." It is easy to get into the unfortunate game of comparing one's insides to other peoples' outsides.
    Comparison always leaves us lacking, especially if it puts us into "I'm better than..." mode. 
        Leta

London, from the Eye

Thursday, January 4, 2024

January 4--Doing One's Part

Each one of us matters, has a role to play, and makes a difference. Each one of us must take responsibility for our own lives, and above all, show respect and love for living things around us, especially each other.  --Jane Goodall

    I participated on New Year's Day in an intention-setting workshop led on Zoom by my friend, Sonya Nelson. She gave us three questions to ponder to come up with our intentions. (See Dec 28 post.) Of course, I wrote too many at first. Looking at my list, I whittled it down to two; if those manifest, it will likely include the remaining ones. My two "umbrella" intentions for the year are these: 

Stay healthy and active.
Encourage and allow myself to be a happy human. 

    I have listed these in bold in a place where I will see them each morning as I do my spiritual practice. 
    So far, so good, four days into 2024!
        Leta

Painting progress...
ART MATTERS!!

Wednesday, January 3, 2024

January 3--We Are Folks

I think there's just one kind of folks. Folks.  --Harper Lee

    I love this! What a fun way to express that we are all one, all here doing the best we can to live in this world in a motley assortment of bodies and living conditions. 
    I have especially run into this idea of "folks" at pickleball. I've played in several locations and I love the assortment of folks I encounter. Some are young and agile, some barely lumber around the court, many are seniors who move fairly well for their age. I've seen participants wearing cute outfits and jeans and everything in between. It's simply a bunch of folks moving and having fun. 
    I was raised in a family with a strong mindset of "us vs. them." The idea that there was "just one kind of folks" only applied to WASPs. Fortunately for me, I ended up with friends in all sorts of "folks" groups, so I have been able to release most of the prejudices of my youth. 
    Seeing everyone, including oneself, as just folks is, of course, a practice. 
        Leta

Our Mother's morning artwork in
Wichita yesterday 

Tuesday, January 2, 2024

January 2--Just Be Kind

What I want is so simple I almost can't say it: elementary kindness. 
--Barbara Kingsolver

    One place I would like this to show up in others and myself is driving. Reckless hurrying really is not necessary, with the possible exception of someone giving birth in the car. I am an impatient driver, I know, and I remind myself often that there is no hurry. Please stop running red lights! Also, there are no STOP signs on highway entrance ramps. Elementary kindness means you keep moving, accelerate and merge smoothly into traffic, where elementary kindness has allowed you some space. 
    "Please"    "Thank you"    "Excuse me"    "I'm sorry"  
    Don't be a Karen or a Ken,
        Leta

Mother Nature's kindness is infinite!

Monday, January 1, 2024

January 1--Let's Go for a Car Ride!

If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it.  --Marcus Aurelius

    I certainly wish that our politicians would follow this practice.
    The January theme in "Daily Kindness" is respect. The 12-step programs talk about humility as seeing oneself neither above nor below anyone else on the scale of life. This is an essential aspect of respect, because if I think I am better than you, I have no need to respect you. Alas, we see too much of that these days. 
    In random online scrolling the other day, I saw a t-shirt with this saying:

We are all dogs in God's hot car.

What a great inspiration entering a new year! Nothing gets our Barney wound up more than the prospect of a car ride. Big smile, big excitement, doesn't matter if it is a trip of two miles or 500. There are new things to see and do and smell and taste! He gets to be with his humans whom he must keep in a neat "herd." Maybe there will be a drive-thru with a treat, ice cream being the all-time favorite. Let's go, go, go!
    Can we enter the new year with this dog/car-ride level of excitement despite facing the unknown? I suspect maintaining such an attitude would make for a mighty fine year!
        Leta

This isn't Barney. Our Barney won't stick
his head out an open window!