December 28--Another Look at Gratitude

It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst. 
--Tom Stoppard

    Amen! Anyone who has raised one or more children has had a hearty dose of that. I am so thankful for those who have loved me at my worst!

    Speaking of gratitude, let's amp it up as we head into the new year. It helps to keep my thoughts headed in a positive direction. Rev. Kris Alexander offers this perspective on gratitude:

Gratitude is more than a nightly ritual. It is a guide for purposeful action.
I’ve revamped my gratitude practice. Instead of merely listing things I’m grateful for, I now ask myself four questions:
1. Who or what inspired me today?
2. Who or what brought me comfort today?
3. Who or what brought me joy today?
4. What action does my gratitude inspire?

    I would tend to use these questions during my morning spiritual practice to consider the previous day. As I write this, I'm thinking of the day after Christmas. 

1. Inspiration--We had friends over, several of whom are artists, and they asked about my paintings and they were so encouraging. 
2. Comfort--Happy hour time on the deck with my husband and dog.
3. Joy--Playing pickleball with the church gang. 
4. Action--I did a bunch of house-cleaning in preparation for our gathering. 

    That's a very useful set of questions! 

        Leta 

It was a fun supper & jam
by this artist!!